QUICK ANSWER
A first property settlement discussion works best with a complete high-level balance sheet, a relationship timeline and a list of missing information. Include assets and liabilities in either name and avoid moving or disposing of property without advice.
Key takeaways
- List assets, debts and superannuation in both names.
- Mark estimates and missing information.
- Raise urgent housing or cash-flow issues early.
Create one financial picture
List real property, bank accounts, investments, vehicles, businesses, trusts, superannuation, personal debts and tax liabilities, whether held jointly or separately. Use current estimates and label their source.
Include assets or debts that may be disputed rather than deciding in advance that they do not count. The lawyer can explain relevance and information requirements.
Add the relationship timeline
Record major relationship, separation, parenting, employment, inheritance and property events. Note significant contributions or changes without turning the timeline into an argument.
- Recent statements for major assets and debts
- Superannuation fund details
- Business, trust or company interests
- Existing agreements, orders or settlement proposals
Separate urgency from final settlement
Immediate questions may concern mortgage payments, access to funds, insurance, occupancy or preservation of property. Identify these separately from longer-term division.
Ask about information exchange, negotiation pathways, likely stages, time limits and the documents needed before useful advice on options can be given.
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COMMON QUESTIONS
Useful answers before you start.
Can I leave out an asset in my own name?
Give the lawyer the complete picture. Ownership name alone does not determine relevance, and disclosure obligations may apply.
Do I need exact valuations before the first meeting?
Usually a sourced estimate is enough to begin. Ask which assets need formal valuation and when that cost is justified.
Should I close joint accounts?
Do not make major changes without considering obligations and consequences. Seek advice about urgent protective steps for your circumstances.